Have you ever felt a phase where you feel like the heart has been stabbed into millions of pieces? Do you love to love you and have never felt your heart was broken into smithereens? Have you always loved and lost - and yet felt that insatiable desire feeling you are once ready to love again?
It is always heartbreaking to give yourself and entrust your heart to someone, believing that you and the person that you loved could spend an eternity just being in each other's arms and yet realizing at the end of your relationship that what you have been clinging on to was not that strong after all. And when this feeling of melancholy hits you, your heart begins to doubt itself and starts to give you this uneasy feeling of not being ready to love again ever.
And yet the heart ever resilient, it still gives you that signs that maybe, just maybe you could open up your heart to someone again. So what are the tell tale signs that your heart is giving you - telling you undoubtedly that you are ready to love again huh?
Sign #1: You start to smile again
There is no question in mind that when you got broken hearted, the rest of your soul also didn't feel like smiling. Sometimes, some people would also lead themselves to a downward spiral call depression and would take at least months or even years to recover. And so when you feel like your heart has become lighter and your face seems to smile more often again, then it is one of the best signs to healing and recovery.
Sign #2: You start to notice other attractive people again
When you were with your ex before and right after she dumped you, you felt like your eyes couldn't bear to look at other people also - for two reasons. First reason is that you couldn't help but think that all women are the same and no matter how beautiful they all are, they would still break your heart in the long run (bitter much?). And the second reason is that you know that no matter how interesting other girls are, they wouldn't be able to measure up to your ex ----wrong!
Sign #3: You start to sing in the shower again
A song is always a positive note - a good vibe that you are happy and light. And when you start to pull a John Meyer again, then there's a very strong sign that your heart is once again ready to take another shot at love. And yes, sometimes you even add a whistle or two!
To find love is always a gift - and we are given this gift to love and be loved...and yes to lose and find love again. What is the best thing about our hearts is that we always have the power to give it away. And when you have the strength to share it again to the world, that's when you know that love is eternal. So go and take that chance to be happy again.love is sometimes painful but real love is fun, I hope you can find true love and last without feeling heartbroken.
Monday, March 14, 2011
The signs are ready to love after heartbreak
